Thursday, November 16, 2006
fun day in school...
thursday is fun....
but the most boring was ofcoz Prem and Gerard class...
fucked up boring...
now in school...
gonna study here...
quizzes are coming...
check out this email i got from cuzzie...
hope you people will read this and pass this message around...
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Important info, though, na'uzubillah-himinan-zalik, let's just pray that this will/has not happen to anybody we know or we do not know.
Please pass to all your Muslim friends.
If it is not too much to find out Q2 & Q3 because many Muslims actually get their children marry off once they know that their daughter is carrying anillegitimate child.
A question was asked of the Imam recently, which raised many other questions. I would like to share them with you, as they are very important:
Question 1: What is the correct thing to do when a girl becomes pregnant outside of marriage?
Answer 1: She should not marry anyone until the baby is born.
Question 2: Assuming the father of the child wants to marry her, can he?
Answer 2: No, he cannot marry her, until the baby is born.
Question 3: Is the marriage valid if they did marry?
Answer 3: No, the marriage contract is invalid. A Muslim cannot marry a pregnant woman, even if he is the biological father.
Question 4: If they are already married, after finding out she is pregnant, what should they do now to correct it?
Answer 4: They should separate. She should wait for confirmation that she is not pregnant. They can then marry, as this will be now a legal marriage by Islamic law.
Question 5: What if they don't correct it?
Answer 5: They will still living in a relationship of Zina as the Marriage contract is not valid.
Question 6: What are the rights of the child that was conceived outside marriage?
Answer 6: According to the scholars, the child does not belong to the biological father by Islamic law. Hence, the child cannot inherit anything from the biological father. The biological father also has no rights over the child.
Question 7: If you say that the biological father is not the father by Islamic law, does that mean he cannot be the mahram of his own biological daughter (that is conceived outside marriage)?
Answer 7: Yes, he cannot be her mahram.
Question 8: A Muslim man and a Muslim (or Non-Muslim) woman decides to get married after having lived together, how should they go about it?
Answer 8: They must separate immediately and the woman must wait for one menstrual cycle (To prove she is not pregnant), before they can enter into a Marriage contract.
Question 9: If I know someone that is in this situation, should I tell them about what I have learnt or is it none of my business?
Answer 9: It is your Islamic duty to inform them, so they can rectify their situation, otherwise all the children from that relationship will be born outside an Islamic legal marriage.
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bAsH oUtZ~~~
